THIS SKIN I AM IN!!

I AM MORE THAN COMFORTABLE IN THE SKIN THAT I AM IN!!!  I DON'T THINK THAT I AM PERFECT BUT WHATEVER I AM I LOVE IT!!! I DON'T HAVE ONE INSECURE BONE IN MY BODY.  WHEN I STEP OUT I KNOW THAT I AM JUST AS AMAZING AND DESIRABLE AS THE NEXT WOMAN.  I AM BOLD AND BAD ENOUGH TO STEP OUT ASIDE JANET JACKSON AND HALLE BERRY AND NOT FEEL THE NONE THE LESS.  IT IS SAD THAT SOCIETY HAS PLACED ALL OF THESE STEREOTYPES ON US BASED ON PHYSICAL FEATURES AND OTHER IRRELEVANT THINGS.  ALL ATTRACTIVE PEOPLE ARE NOT DUMB AND/OR ARROGANT.  ALL FAT PEOPLE DON'T SUFFER FROM LOW SELF ESTEEM.  EVERY PERSON WITH A NICE BODY ARE SEX OBJECTS OR SNOBBY.  WE HAVE TO LEARN THAT WE ARE NOT REQUIRED TO CONFORM TO ANY OF THE TAGS THAT SOCIETY PLACES ON US.   I MEAN REALLY, WE ARE ALL DIFFERENT ANYWAY!!!   


YOU HAVE TO LEARN TO EMBRACE THE FACTS OF YOUR EXISTENCE NO MATTER WHAT THEY ARE.  ONCE YOU ARE IN TUNE WITH WHO YOU ARE, NO ONE CAN USE IT AGAINST YOU.  I AM A PLUS SIZED WOMAN AND I HAVE BEEN FOR YEARS, AND IT DOESN'T MAKE ME FEEL LIKE ANY LESS OF A WOMAN.  I AM CONFIDENT IN WHO I AM AND WHAT I AM CAPABLE OF.  I KNOW THAT MY PHYSICAL ATTRIBUTES ARE BUT A SMALL PIECE OF WHO I AM.  I HAVE BEEN TEASES AND TALKED ABOUT BUT MY FEELINGS HAVE NEVER BEEN HURT BY ANYTHING THAT WAS TRUE.  I HAVE BEEN CALLED FAT.......... I HAVE BEEN CALLED A BITCH...........  AND MY REPLY TO BOTH ARE YEAH, AND!!!  I KNOW THAT I AM OVER WEIGHT, I AM THE PERSON THAT PURCHASES THOSE SIZE 22 CLOTHES.  I KNOW THAT I CAN BE A LITTLE BITCHY AT TIMES, DEAL WITH IT OR KICK ROCKS!!!!  NO MATTER WHAT A PERSON THINKS OF ME, I HOLD MYSELF IN HIGH REGARD.  


SO MANY TIMES PEOPLE ALLOW THEMSELVES TO BE HURT BY THE THINGS THAT OTHERS SAY.   ONE REASON IS THEY HAVEN'T COME TO TERMS WITH THEMSELVES. TWO, BECAUSE THEY ARE NOT HAPPY WITH THEMSELVES.  WE HAVE TO LEARN TO LOVE OURSELVES SO THAT OUR CHILDREN CAN INHERIT THE SAME SELF LOVE.  MANY TIME PARENTS (ESPECIALLY MOTHER'S) PASS ON SELF ESTEEM ISSUES TO THEIR CHILDREN.  OUR CHILDREN WATCH AND MIMIC MANY OF OUR ACTIONS AND BEFORE YOU KNOW IT YOUR CHILD IS IN THE SAME RUT YOU ARE IN.  I TALK TO MY KIDS ALL THE TIME ABOUT HOW THEY FEEL ABOUT THEMSELVES.  I LET THEM KNOW THAT NO ONE IS PERFECT AND THAT THEY NEED TO LOVE THEIR INNER AND THEIR OUTER IS JUST A SHELL.  I TELL THEM THAT WE ARE LIKE CELL PHONES........... IT CAN WORK GOOD HAVE ALL THE RIGHT FEATURES AND APPS BUT THE SCREEN IS CRACK OR SCRATCHED.  THAT DOESN'T MEAN THAT THE CELLPHONE ISN'T ANY GOOD..........  I HAVE A SON WHO IS MORE INTELLIGENT THAN MANY ADULTS.  HE IS VERY HANDSOME BUT HE IS A BIG MAN SIZED BOY, AND HE HAS LITTLE MAN BOOBS.  THE KIDS PICK ON HIM AND SAY THINGS ALL THE TIME BUT YOU KNOW WHAT HE SAY..... "MAMA I DON'T CARE ABOUT THAT CAUSE ONE DAY I AM GONNA BE RICH AND THEY WILL BE SOME WHERE WISHING THEY WERE"!!!  YOU HAVE TO TEACH CHILDREN TO BE INDEPENDENT INDIVIDUALS, LET THEM KNOW THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH GOING AGAINST THE GRAIN.  VARIETY IS THE SPICE OF LIFE, AND THERE IS NOTHING HAPPENING IN THAT BOX, SO GET OUT OF IT!!!!  

WHO CARES WHAT OTHERS FEEL ABOUT YOU!!! IF YOU KNOW THAT YOU ARE GREAT TO HELL WITH YOUR DRESS SIZE, YOUR COCKED EYES OR YOU BIG NOSE.  THE DETAILS OF YOUR EXISTENCE WILL NOT CHANGE AND IF THEY DO YOU WON'T BE YOU ANYMORE.  THE PEOPLE WHO DON'T APPROVE OF YOU, MY APPROVE OF A DIFFERENT YOU.  HOWEVER, THERE WILL BE A ENTIRELY NEW GROUP OF INDIVIDUALS THAT FIND FLAWS IN THE NEW YOU.  SO UNLESS YOU ARE OCTOMUS PRIME(OR ONE OF THE OTHER TRANSFORMERS) OR PLAN TO CONSTANTLY REINVENT YOURSELF, GET COMFORTABLE IN THE SKIN THAT YOU ARE IN!!!!!!!!!